In choosing your spouse, You do not know yourself well enough to make such decision on your own. This means that our hearts are not reliable to make a very important decision about who to marry. We must allow God to do it for us! You don’t know the heart of any other person in this world, No matter how close you are to anyone, You cannot fully know the content of their hearts. You may not little about a few people but never more than that little. God has total control over all circumstances and nature. Since God is in charge of everything in this world, He knows the best way to connect you with your spouse. God has made it very easy for you to relate with Him. This means that you will enter into an intimate relationship with God so that you can relate with God directly through faith, just like Jesus Christ was very close to God and called Him, Abba Father.